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Ignorance is not intent.
Asking to learn is not affront.
Offended is not entitled.

This vocabulary lesson brought to you courtesy of a few folks.
  • Let me preface this by saying I don't live up to my own standard here.

    In the case you've presented, the insensitive comment was still insensitive, and thus should not have been uttered. Of course, if we didn't say anything that might offend someone, then we'd never say anything at all.

    This goes to the point of when a politician says something like "If I offended hemophiliacs, I apologize to them." It ignores the larger point of the fact that he thinks hemophiliacs are bloody fools (pun completely intended).

    That said, yeah, I'm certainly not going to call you out on any specific statement. Glass houses, stones, etc.
    • Oh, I'd wanna know if something I said rubbed wrong. What gets me cranky is the assumption that I deliberately set out to rub someone wrong.
      Really? I got better stuff to do than seek to piss someone off. There is important True Blood fanfiction to read!
  • Yeah, exactly.
  • People never seem to apply "Never attribute to malice what you can attribute to stupidity (or ignorance)" to these cases. It is a bit tricky to do so while offended, but it is polite.

    Mind you, polite is another of those things that people don't seem to go for these days.
    • Yeah- malice is the typical assumed motive, which... yeah, I'm such a malicious person. ;)

      And politesse is so very nearly a dead field. :/
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