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Ruminations that I'm not going to LJ cut and you can just freaking cope.

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Ruminations that I'm not going to LJ cut and you can just freaking cope.

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gayer than the gayest gay that ever gaye
So a thought occurred to me:
Straight couples have little discussion required about who's doing what to whom. There's an emphatic 'this is how it plays, homey' about who's putting what in where; if you want to vary from that (and good on you if you do!), there's discussion to be had. But most people won't vary.

Gay couples? It's a negotiation every night. Maybe I don't feel like giving head tonight. Maybe I just don't want to fuck your ass senseless tomorrow night. Is that something wrong with you? no. Might it take a good bit of coercing to get that across? yes.

Chripes, no wonder a lot of older gay men seem so lonely.
  • Yup.
    • Okay: I stand smarter (rather than corrected, which is really better).
      • I can totally see how you'd miss it as it's not like they show straight couples negotiating in media portrayals and it's not like you've ever done it. ;)
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