in a web of glass, pinned to the edges of vision

'I really hate that thing you did' is not the same statement as 'I really hate you'.
'You have done a lot of things I dislike' is also not the same statement as 'I dislike you'.
Sure, to do is to be and all that, but- there is a subtle difference between 'this is something I did' and 'this is me'.
If there wasn't a difference there, you'd probably have to keep your feces around the house.