You're welcome to suggest that I might be stupid to do it- you can tell me 'that really looks like a bad idea and here's why'. I would welcome that input.
I'm just getting awfully sick of limiting what I do to what other people tell me I should be doing.
EDIT to add:
screening comments on this entry. It's not that someone said something that offended me in them- it's just that this isn't a matter for discussion. It needs to be this way.