It's shredding my self-esteem, and has essentially made me utterly unwilling to even touch email with her name on it at all. I am really quite ready to just scream at her 'Why don't you SHUT the FUCK UP, you CUNT'. Though I know this is, obviously, not within the corporate charter.
So I'm trying to think of better ways than that to get across to her that her behavior is outside of the standard I am willing to sit still for from people I actually admire, and I haven't admired her in a very long time. Suggestions?
Even if they're silly suggestions, hey, go to town, folks. This is a venting exercise, rather than a serious quest for solution. I'm just sick of her being a twat, and am letting off steam, rather than looking for some way to make her suffer.